It is an act of faith. You won't know this until you do it and that is really important information to get before a marriage contract. He wants things to be low key for now. With all of this said, I wish I would have found your blog earlier.


Let him respond before you say anything else. I am so glad I found this blog. Anything she learned about mormonsim, she wanted to learn on her own. In my experience discussing my fears with my husband has at times lead to arguing esp.
It is positively shocking. Wow, every word resonates. Lack of motivation and endless loneliness that has caused me to be a lazy 15 pounds heavier woman. Seek advice, and like the chick said, talk and talk and talk untill its all sorted out in your mind, and in his. My husband and I have been together since we were year-olds at university trying to figure out where we stood with the faiths we had grown up in. Work on myself, not him. The hospital had become, by his own admission, his "family", and he had virtually abandoned us to this demanding career.
Mormons love to have fun, but they prefer keeping it clean, respectful, and something that everyone can enjoy. Because Mormons retain old-fashioned values, Mormon girls are raised in a traditional environment by good fathers. You don't have to believe them yourself, but you need that respect in thought as well as action, and you need to frame this as your own journey because you can only change yourself. I've a,ready been a single parent once. Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings. There's definitely strength in kindred spirits.