For every lesson and sermon preached about loving everyone, there are one or two lessons on avoiding outsiders because they will destroy your eternity. I have been married to my doctor husband for 36 years. Sorry if I gave that impression. Mormonism, like many extreme religions, often stunts the growth of its members. So I want to know, if you woud have been given the option to take a totally different path and have a fresh start, would you have taken it?. My husband and I have been married for about 4 years and together since we were undergrads, before he chose medicine as his profession. Find someone who isn't part of a cult. Do you really love him, honey.
Break up with her. Nobody has prepared her for one, definitely haven't prepared her for a healthy physical relationship. The fact that you bring your query to Joanna Brooks rather than church authorities reveals much.
Every new set will see your man with fresh and hungry eyes as a potential golden contact. Keep the relationship casual. Thanks again for the continued comments and replies to my edit.
God loves every last one of us, regardless of religious affiliation. I wouldn't just start bringing up the ces letter and the problems in it. He may never come out and say it, but if you mention marriage outside of the church and he's OK with it, you have a slight chance of being happily married to her and not being mormon. I suggest to run as it will not get better.
